OVERCOMING THE SPIRIT OF DENIAL

 

Greetings in the name of Jesus Christ! Here is the word for your meditation and prayer. I am delighted to share the word of encouragement and hope at such a time. The title of my message is: "OVERCOMING THE SPIRIT OF DENIAL" Let me hasten to mention that there are many people who  are in a state of denial, due to several reasons. What is denial? Denial is refusing to admit the truth or reality of something unpleasant. It could be a patient or person in denial about their health problems. What causes a person to be in denial? Anxiety, fear, and insecurity can all provoke and cause denial. As a natural human instict, people try to protect their emotional security. Sometomes, when an event threatens people or scares them, these emotions can be shoved to the side as a coping mechanism. The Living Bible in 2 Samuel 9:5,7-8 says,
[5](5-6) "So King David sent for Mephibosheth—Jonathan’s son and Saul’s grandson. Mephibosheth arrived in great fear and greeted the king in deep humility, bowing low before him.
[7]But David said, “Don’t be afraid! I’ve asked you to come so that I can be kind to you because of my vow to your father Jonathan. I will restore to you all the land of your grandfather Saul, and you shall live here at the palace!”
[8]Mephibosheth fell to the ground before the king. “Should the king show kindness to a dead dog like me?” he exclaimed." The remark by Mephibosheth in the scripture above on verse 8, shows a spirit of denial. He said to David, " Should the king show kindness to a dead dog like me?" This statement is a clear indication that Mephibosheth had written himself off and was now in a state of denial. He considered himself a failure and useless person. He could not accept his state as a disabled person. There are so many people who are in the same state like this one, who are in denial. Some have lost self esteem and confidence due to the feeling of unworthiness. Denial can be experienced by anyone. It arises from events or circumstances that make people feel that their sense of control is threatened.  However, those who suffer from addiction  are far more susceptible to denial due to the brutal, invasive nature of drug and alcohol addiction. Sometimes, denial is evident through bits of anger and extreme emotion. On the other hand, it can also be far more subtle, to the point where the person who is in denial honestly does not realize it. Although it is normal reaction to circumstances that are out of our control, denial can serve as a major roadblock to recovery. 
The Living Bible in 1 Samuel 1:8-12,14-15,17 says,
[8]“What’s the matter, Hannah?” Elkanah would exclaim. “Why aren’t you eating? Why make such a fuss over having no children? Isn’t having me better than having ten sons?”
[9]One evening after supper, when they were at Shiloh, Hannah went over to the Tabernacle. Eli the priest was sitting at his customary place beside the entrance.
[10]She was in deep anguish and was crying bitterly as she prayed to the Lord.
[11]And she made this vow: “O Lord of heaven, if you will look down upon my sorrow and answer my prayer and give me a son, then I will give him back to you, and he’ll be yours for his entire lifetime, and his hair shall never be cut.”
[12](12-13) Eli noticed her mouth moving as she was praying silently and, hearing no sound, thought she had been drinking.
[14]“Must you come here drunk?” he demanded. “Throw away your bottle.”
[15](15-16) “Oh no, sir!” she replied, “I’m not drunk! But I am very sad and I was pouring out my heart to the Lord. Please don’t think that I am just some drunken bum!”
[17]“In that case,” Eli said, “cheer up! May the Lord of Israel grant you your petition, whatever it is!” This is a good example of a woman who suppressed and managed the state of denial, through prayer. Although, Hannah was in a state of denial due to lack of a child, in her desperate state she still managed to pray without ceasing, until she got what she wanted. When you are in a state of denial you must dwell in the word and prayer all the time, in order to overcome the spirit of denial.
The Living Bible in Deuteronomy 28:13 says,
[13]"If you will only listen and obey the commandments of the Lord your God that I am giving you today, he will make you the head and not the tail, and you shall always have the upper hand." Tell yourself I am above and  I am not beneath. I am the head and I am not the tail. I will still make it in life, God being my helper. Don't look down upon yourself like Mephibosheth.
The Living Bible in Philippians 4:13 says,
[13]"for I can do everything God asks me to with the help of Christ who gives me the strength and power." Just encourage yourself by saying, " I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Never see yourself as a failure or a nonentity! You are an achiever and overcomer in Christ Jesus. I know that some people have a more difficult time than others when it comes to identifying and expressing emotions, especially when the emotions are painful. However, by suppressing emotions, individuals are failing to recognize the truth behind their thoughts, actions and behaviors. As a result denial occurs. A person may claim that he or she doesn't feel these negative emotions  in order to avoid the pain that comes from it. Whether it is physical or emotional trauma, the loss of a loved one, or fear of circumstances, suppressing emotions is not a healthy way to cope. A person who is trying to suppress their emotions may try to stay busy to avoid feeling or reach for an outside fix, such as drugs, alcohol, sex, shopping or compulsive eating. Whatever the case may be, suppressing emotions can lead to a state of denial, which can result in more serious issues further down the line.
The Living Bible in Jeremiah 32:27 says,
[27]"I am the Lord, the God of all mankind; is there anything too hard for me?" The above scripture is an answer and solution to those who are in a state of denial. Knowing that God can address and handle your situation, must give you confidence that you can come out from any state you are in, because God is able to handle every situation in your life.
The Living Bible in Job 13:2 says,
[2]"I know as much as you do. I’m not stupid." The above scripture is also an encouragement for those who may look down upon themselves, that they can also be able to do what other people can do. If you are not married, don't be in a state of denial, remain hopeful and confident that what others can do or have, you can also do or have it.
The Living Bible in Matthew 7:7-10 says,
[7]“Ask, and you will be given what you ask for. Seek, and you will find. Knock, and the door will be opened.
[8]For everyone who asks, receives. Anyone who seeks, finds. If only you will knock, the door will open.
[9]If a child asks his father for a loaf of bread, will he be given a stone instead?
[10]If he asks for fish, will he be given a poisonous snake? Of course not!" Whatever, you are in need of, commit it to the Lord in prayer and you will have it in due season. You can overcome the spirit of denial by building self confidence and assurance, that you can make it in life. It could be about your career, relationship, marriage and sickness, know and believe that all things are possible with God.( Matthew 19:26) Living in denial can hinder you from achieving your plan and purpose for life. Be delivered and set free right now, from the spirit of denial, in the name of Jesus Christ. Remember, good news is your portion this year. Good news is also my portion.                    " OVERCOME THE SPIRIT OF DENIAL!" You are unique and special, because you are fearfully and wonderfully made. It's not what people say about you, it's what God says about your life and your destiny. It is well and it shall be well with you, in the fulness of time!

May God richly bless you!       

Apostle Fanuel Masikati

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